Have you ever realized that whenever you are being good and nice to people around you and they start playing with your tender heart??? If not then see to it they don’t in the future too!!! It may be some kind of a joke and jolly, but there comes a time when they start taking you for granted.
The main reason when your own friends start to take you for granted is of the following reasons:
1. You have never taken a stand for yourself
2. Laughing at all their lame jokes
3.Considering them the important person you cannot spend a day in college
4.You have a mutual friend that you don’t like
5. Accepting all their suggestions even if they are wrong for you
6. You try not to hurt them and so start admitting all their demands even though they are a waste of time
7. You stop thinking about yourself ( we all should be little bit selfish because no one in the world will love you more than you do to yourself)
The main purpose of writing and stating the reasons are so that you never get hurt due to the expectations you keep from them to behave with you same as you do with them.
Friends come and go, if you ever notice that they are demanding a lot from you which you resist to do from the bottom of your heart then just leave and do what you wish. For example, if your friend does not want you to hang out with other people and command you to not go then just leave them alone and go where you wish to go.
Not all people are worth keeping so always keep in your mind all the friends are temporary. I think this will definitely help you to fight the bullies back and so start being selfish.
Friendship is not so simple, when I tried to keep you
It’s the most vogue category, I have ever knew
You just try to be kind, not that you are so
Try to become a person, you have far way to go
Call yourself tough, you too had to go rough
Being angry may be okay, but it’s not okay to be cruel
Take away your hand, give it to someone else
Don’t make them feel like you made me felt
When we were so close, always hand in hand
You were always there, when none could understand
We were always incomplete without one another
Then why didn’t you get? About what I was bothered
I was bothered about your changing behavior
I was worried, if again I would be left alone
You didn’t tried to make up our fight
Nor took initiative to find out why I was quiet?
How didn’t you realize?
Didn’t you know me better?
I too choose to turn around
Since you weren’t the same as ever you were
Even if I tried to make it clear
I was always so weird!
It was not my anger! anger! anger!
I struggled it through
It left me feeling so empty
I don’t know
What’s it about?
I still have to figure things out
We all must have experienced the time when we must have fallen in love. The time when we had lost ourselves to love them infinitely. Thinking of them in our dreams or after we wake up. Yes, I am talking about our special ones. We call them as ‘Special ones’ because they make us feel special, obviously as the word indicates. There is no one like them in our life who could love us like they do. And, also you must be remembering the day when you had a broken up with your special one. Yes, it must have taking you long time to overcome them. Some people just take forever for that. But, what we don’t realize is what made that person special was actually us ! We love someone more than ourselves, we care for them day and day out. Made them feel special too in a way they did to us like no one had ever made them feel or could not make them feel like you did, since we all have our own aura. So this eventually means that the power was inside us. We carry so much power of love, that we needed someone to share with. And, when they go away, we feel empty because they had taken some of our special power away. Don’t mourn over the loss. See this as opportunity to get recharged again. Recharge yourself with a more developed power which would be stronger than the before one. Some take this as not getting in a relationship again, not getting closer to someone again, some take it as getting rude over people or some just start loving again. Choice is yours, just remember to make sure that it develops you in all the way of your life and you are happy. At the end of the story, being happy is all that matters.
Be happy 🙂
What do you see in my eyes ?
Let me be the one to tell you
You see my love as fake
And me as a drama queen
What you don’t realise from my voice?
That I am acting to be fine.
I never blamed you
For each and everytime
When you take my breath away
It isn’t me
But you are the culprit
For I am so lame
Love me, love me
Oh you can’t!
You cannot be the way I am
Hate me, hate me
You always have
You can keep grudges and die for that
I am a flame of candle that can dance in the dark
This enlightens the way
Fill the night with the day.
Even though I am dried and pale like autumn leaves
My battles are with the colds and winds
Feels so weary and drops down on the street.
I am like a sun that shines through the morning
Hides away in the night to get back in the fight next day
To be like an energy without which world will stop to exist
An ice cream scoop that no one can ever resist.
I’ll pray, pray
For you to be happy
Hope further in life you be fair and true
God bless you!
If you can’t keep everyone happy. Never mind. Try to keep yourself cheered up. Give yourself a gift since you care for others so much. Do things that you love. Because at the end of the day when you go to sleep, all that matters is how much you are satisfied with yourself.
Rather than worrying about keeping people in your life. Keeping them happy by sacrificing your self-respect. No matter how much good friends you have. You cannot guess by whom you’ll get stabbed. Because, your folks may become forks at any time.
This world is becoming more self-centered, obsessed, crazy, egotistical. Between these terms, we people usually lose the war. So it’s better to love ourselves more than sharing it with people who don’t deserve it. Try to understand the person and soul that may be not unhealthy for you. If they are danger for your happiness then move them away. Because we deserve to be blithe all the time.
Lisa was struggling to keep her friend in her contact. She didn’t wanted Matt to forget her and to avoid not talking with each other for months. Many times, she has kept her self-respect aside and texted him. Just for a chat. But, he wasn’t interested in texting her back. Things weren’t like before. Lisa just wouldn’t let him go. She just wanted him to text her in one or two days. One day while talking to him. He said out of nowhere to Lisa to stop talking to him. It wasn’t necessary. But, what was the problem in chatting within some days? Can’t people get obsessed with their friends and ask to give them some time ? If Matt would talk to Lisa whenever she desired then this obsession would have ended on nice terms. But, the sudden rejection landed Lisa in more stress. That time she realized we deserve our love more than anyone else. Now, both of them don’t talk anymore. Because, Lisa was tired of holding on to Matt for her happiness. This is the story about getting obsessed with others. It can be a sharp fork for us and nothing else.
Be happy 🙂